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Black-Tie Events, Decoded

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So I was excited to meet Kathleen Turner...

I have always admired Kathleen Turner for her acting and her activism. She has had some great movie roles and got away with murder in Body Heat. Her work with Planned Parenthood helped elevate that organization to the world stage. So when I heard that she was appearing at the Chicago International Film Festival Summer Gala, I thought it might be an opportunity for me to actually meet one of my favorite celebrities. At the Chicago International Film Festival Spring Gala Many p

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The Astra Awards red carpet was packed with photographers, journalists, stylists, agents, publicists. Okay it was just packed. With joy. #awardshow #redcarpet #astrafilmawards

The invitation said semi-formal. It didn’t say don’t wear a gown. I was only a little surprised as I watched the red carpet to see so #many beautiful gowns. #awardshow #astrafilmawards #awardseason

All in a day’s work. Riki Lindhome is beautiful in an #Amsale gown on the #AstraFilmAwards carpet, posing for a barrage of photographers when, suddenly Lee Meltzer darts across in front of her! She handles it well!😇

What do you notice first when someone walks onto a carpet like this?
The dress, or the way they carry it?

I’m paying attention to both this season. #AwardsSeason
#RedCarpet
#FilmCommunity
#astrafilmawards
#GalaGirl

I love when awards season humor assumes we’re paying attention. Messi… or messy? �🐾 #messi #avra #astrafilmawards

Elle Fanning on the Astra carpet.
No performance. No rush. Just ease in the moment.

This is the part of awards season I like watching.
Not just the clothes, but how people move through the attention when it’s actually happening.

I’ll keep noticing these small things as the season unfolds.
Follow if you’re curious too.
#AwardsSeason
#astrafilmawards
#ElleFanning
#RedCarpetMoments
#EventCulture

Not every meaningful event is designed for maximum visibility.
Some are designed for connection.

That difference shows up in how people dress, talk, and relate to everyone in the room.
I’ll keep sharing what I’m seeing as awards season unfolds.

Follow if you’re curious about it like me. #awardshow #astrafilmawards

The ASTRAs weren’t a big network production, and they weren’t about polishing a public image.
Actors and filmmakers still came. Even Sharon Stone.
Not for the cameras. For the community. Not everyone would have done that. How about you?
Follow if you’re curious about how all this works. I’ll keep sharing what I notice. #sharonstone #astrafilmawards #awardseason

On the (red) carpet at the Astra Awards in L’idee from Rent the Runway. I’m following award season from inside the room. What do you want to know? Leave a comment. #astrafilmawards @lidee_woman @renttherunway #awardseason @hollywoodcreativealliance

It was nice to see Elle Fanning on the carpet at the Astras.

Not because it was dramatic, but because it felt at ease. The movement, the posture, the way the dress behaved under pressure.

I’m sharing what I notice during awards season at no cost, while it’s happening, and thinking about how it shows up at real events.

Follow if you’re curious too. There’s more context on the blog. • #AwardsSeason
• #AstraAwards
• #RedCarpet
• #FilmAwards
• #WomenInFilm
• HollywoodEvents
• GalaCulture

Awards season looks can feel impossible because everything is turned up at once.
For real events, the best move is simple: one headline, everything else supportive.
Save this for the next time you’re tempted to do sparkle + giant earrings + dramatic shoulders all at once.
Share if you know someone who has styling questions.#awardshow #gala #goldenglobes obes

Statement shoulders do something simple: they give your silhouette presence before you say a word.
It’s not about being loud. It’s about looking intentional.
Save this if you’re shopping for a look that feels confident without showing more skin.
Share with a friend who loves a clean, tailored moment. #goldenglobes #awardshow #gala

Metallics are having a moment, and the difference is how they’re used.
The best looks felt like quiet shine, not novelty.
Save this if you have a formal event coming up and you’re deciding between “sparkle” and “polish.”
Share with a friend who always asks, “Is this too much?” #goldenglobes #awardshow #gala

As predicted, structured and broad powerful shoulders appeared at the Golden Globes in a variety of expressions. Going to a ball? Fashion inspiration to save and share. #awardshow #gala #style #goldenglobes

As we expected, Metallics we’re in the spotlight at tonight’s Golden Globes. There was liquid gold, and molten silver, and they were glimmering, luminous and eye catching. Going to a gala? Save and share fashion inspiration. #awardshow #gala #goldenglobes

#awardshow #gala #goldenglobes #beverlyhilton

Sharon Stone is Timeless. Good recognition of a sterling career. #sharonstone

Elle Fanning was beautiful on the carpet, but she also was friendly and approachable, confident. I’ll be posting more about awards season here and on my blog. Link in bio. #awardshow #awardseason #astraawards

Some people walk into a formal space and you can feel the ease around them. That kind of confidence is a gift. It makes other people soften too. That is what I’m always watching for, because it is something we can all practice.
Who is someone who made a room feel easier for you?
#awardshow #gala #astraawards #awardseason

The carpet gets the attention, but the room is where people feel things. Most of us are just trying to settle in, feel comfortable, and enjoy ourselves. Lukita Maxwell reminded me how powerful grounded energy can be.

Have you ever walked into a formal event and needed five minutes to get your confidence back? #awardshow #astraawards #gala #awardseason

Lukita Maxwell is one of those people who makes the carpet feel human. She is poised, kind, and completely herself. It is such a good reminder that confidence is not about being perfect. It is about being present. #awardshow #awardseason #astraawards

What helps you feel steady and grounded in an intense room?

One of the reasons I love awards season is that it looks glamorous from the outside, but inside the room it can be surprisingly human. Some nominees show up without a big group, and you can feel how much it means to be welcomed and grounded.
If you’ve ever walked into a gala and felt unsure for the first few minutes, you are not alone.
Question: What helps you settle into a room when you arrive? #awardshow #awardseason #astraawards awards

One of the things I love about awards season is how much confidence you can see up close. The moments that stick with me are not the biggest ones. They’re the ones that feel grounded.
Quick take: ease reads as elegance.
If you’re dressing for a formal event this year, your presence matters as much as your outfit.
Question: What makes you feel most confident in a dressy room? #awardshow #awardseason #astraawards

This is why I watch awards seaso, to understand what reads as confident and current. Then we bring that back to real black tie events. If you are watching too, tell me what you’re noticing.#awardshow #gala #blacktie

Not all awards nights are the same. Sometimes people walk in for the first time and feel unsure. I have felt it too as an attendee. If you have ever wondered, “Is everyone else in on something I missed?” you are in the right place here.#awardshow #gala #awardseason

The clothes are beautiful, yes. But what I notice most is how people carry themselves in these rooms. If you have ever felt unsure at a gala or formal event, you are not alone. Stay with me and we will explore this together. #awardshow #gala #awardseason

The Beverly Hilton is one of the rare places where you can feel awards season even if you are just passing through. Globes night is coming, and this hotel always delivers the mood. Full article on substack. Link in bio.
#awardshow #gala #goldenglobes @beverlyhilton

The Beverly Hilton is one of those places where you can feel the industry around you. You do not have to be inside the ballroom to feel the energy. Sometimes the hallway is the whole show. Full article on substack. Link in bio. #awardshow #gala #goldenglobesawards @beverlyhilton

Critics Choice is a red carpet that to me signals what the season will be like. Metallics, shoulders, and structure are the mood. If you have a gala coming up this season, follow me as I talk about how what shows up on carpets can turn into choices that actually work in the real galas we attend. #gala #blacktie #criticschoiceawards #awardshow #awardseason

Shoulders are a confidence move. They make you stand taller automatically. The key is balance: one strong structure, and clean styling everywhere else. #criticschoiceawards #awardshow #awardseason #gala

Critics Choice can give us the first real fashion signal of the season. This year it was clear: metallics! Not as costume, but as confident polish. I’m watching this thoughtfully in the next events this week. Follow me for more. #awardshow #criticschoiceawards #awardseason #awardshow

I pay attention to what keeps showing up, because that’s what usually translates to real life. #awardshow #awardseason #criticschoiceawards #criticschoice #gala

Critics Choice is where patterns start. Not because it’s bigger than the Oscars, but because stylists test ideas here first #awardshow #criticschoiceawards #awardseason #criticschoice #blacktie

Critics Choice is tonight (1/4/26) and it is about patterns, not shock moments #criticschoiceawards #awardseason #gala #awardshow #criticschoice

It’s how to prevent the “trying too hard” look. #gala #blacktie #style #creativeblacktie

One strong choice. Everything else polished. Creative black tie should be fun! #creativeblacktie #gala #blacktie #style

Save this for the next creative invite. #creativeblacktie #blacktie #gala

Creative doesn’t mean “whatever”. It means intentional.#gala #awardshow #blacktie #creativeblacktie

Save this for the next formal invite. And follow me for more. #gala #awardshow #shoes

Simple, sleek, wearable. Done.#gala #blacktie #style

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What Shoes Work Best for Black Tie Events?

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Awards Season 2025-2026: The Return of Armor and the Rise of Undone Glamour

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Welcome to Gala Girl - Black Tie Events Decoded

Going to a "Starter" Gala

So I was excited to meet Kathleen Turner...

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