What Shoes Work Best for Black Tie Events?

They have to be comfortable enough to wear for an entire evening

Shoes are one of the most overlooked parts of formal dressing, yet they often determine whether an outfit feels cohesive. Even a beautifully chosen gown can lose its impact if the footwear does not support the overall tone of the look.

For black tie events, shoes should reinforce formality without competing for attention. Classic silhouettes tend to work best because they allow the rest of the outfit to lead. The goal is not to make a statement at the feet, but to ensure the entire look reads as intentional from head to toe.

Closed-toe heels are always appropriate and remain the most reliable option for traditional black tie events. Pointed or almond-shaped toes generally read more formal than rounded or square styles, particularly in evening settings. The materials matter as much as the shape. Satin, leather, suede, and velvet finishes tend to feel right for formal events, while matte or overly casual textures can diminish the effect of an otherwise polished outfit.

Dressy sandals can also work, especially for modern or creative black tie events. When choosing sandals, refinement is key. Slim straps, minimal hardware, and clean lines help maintain elegance. Stability matters here as well. A sandal that feels secure allows you to move comfortably and confidently. Chunky platforms, casual espadrilles, and daytime wedges usually feel out of place, even when styled with formal dresses.

Heel height is a personal decision, but you have to be comfortable wearing the shoes! Black tie events often involve extended periods of standing, walking across large venues, or navigating unfamiliar flooring. A shoe you can move in easily will always read more confident than one that requires constant attention. Balance and posture contribute as much to polish as the shoe itself.

Color choice should feel deliberate. Black remains a classic option and works across nearly all formal settings. Metallics, particularly gold, silver, or champagne tones, integrate easily with eveningwear and often complement formal fabrics beautifully. Deep neutrals or colors that echo the dress can also work well. Highly contrasting colors can be effective, but only when they feel intentional rather than distracting. If the shoe becomes the focal point, it may be working against the overall look.

The relationship between the shoe and the dress is subtle but important. A heavy shoe can weigh down a delicate gown, while an overly delicate shoe can feel insubstantial beneath a structured silhouette. Taking a moment to consider proportion helps ensure balance.

Above all, shoes should feel like a natural extension of the outfit rather than an afterthought. When they align with the tone of the event and the rest of the look, they quietly reinforce polish and allow you to move through the evening with ease.

Of course, I have shoes that I THINK will be good for a gala but just never quite fit the bill. Many times I have just gone back to classic black patent leather pumps because I know they work, I know they are comfortable (not the very pointy toes), and I know I can just put them on and forget about it. And that's important to me. I don't want to be thinking about my feet hurting, or wondering whether people are rolling their eyes at my shoes. It's so important to feel put-together and confident.