Welcome to Gala Girl - Black Tie Events Decoded

If you’ve ever stood in front of your closet before a formal event thinking “I have nothing to wear and everyone else knows what they’re doing” this is for you.

Galas, charity dinners, and black-tie events are supposed to be fun. But for many women, they’re quietly intimidating. The dress codes feel vague. The expectations feel unspoken. And no one really explains the rules; you’re just expected to know them.

That’s why Gala Girl exists.

This newsletter is your calm, confident guide to black-tie culture, from what to wear, to how to prepare, to how to walk into a room like you belong there (because you do).

Here’s one thing I want you to know before your next event:

Black tie isn’t about perfection.

It’s about intention.

When your look feels thoughtful, appropriate, and comfortable, confidence follows. And confidence is what people actually notice.

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing:

• Dress code breakdowns (in plain English)

• Outfit formulas you can rely on

• Etiquette tips no one explains

• Seasonal gala guides and insider notes

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For today, here’s a simple starting point:

The Gala Girl Rule of Thumb

If you’re unsure what to wear, err slightly more formal. And never more casual. You can always soften a look. You can’t elevate it once you’re in the room.

If you have a gala coming up and don’t know what to wear, email me at edie@galagirl.social and tell me:

• The dress code

• The type of event

• The city

  
  

I read every email (and every comment).

Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here.

Warmly,

Edie Ellis

The Gala Girl

Black Tie Events Decoded

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